Seriously, does this BM do ANYTHING?!?!?!
I've been with my husband for 4 years now so I really need to stop being blown away by BM's laziness at this point, but I am also a bio-mom so I know what "normal" moms do and I just can't get over this bitch.
Last night's example: it is HER night with HER kids. DH picks up my SS and brings him to soccer practice. After dropping him off with BM, he then takes oldest SD to Staples to buy supplies for a school project. Ummmmmmmmmmmm..... BM couldn't take her while DH and SS were gone for 2 hours?!?!!?
When I ask DH, "why didn't BM take SD to get the stuff?" he just shrugs. Does he seriously not understand how fucking LAZY this bitch is?!?!!? "I don't mind going" he says.
Seriously, this woman has a full on CALVARY of people she has handle her kids: my DH, her DH, her elderly parents, her spinster sister. We have been living together for almost a year and this bitch NEVER picks up her OWN DAMN KIDS. She'll have MY husband drop them off, or her husband pick them up, or her sister, parents ANYONE.
WTF does she do with all her free time!?!?!?! I get ONE night off a week and that is PLENTY to get anything done. She gets FOUR NIGHTS WITH ZERO KIDS and she's still too "busy" to do this shit with them on the three nights she has them???
Mind. Blown.
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But she might break a nail
But she might break a nail and I'm sure your DH doesn't pay her nearly enough CS to get her nails done twice in one week! poor thing has to get by on once a week! :sick:
hahahaha DH doesn't pay child
hahahaha DH doesn't pay child support
We have them most of the time. She's actually supposed to pay him, but I'm not sure it happens.
blending- is your BM the one
blending- is your BM the one and the same as Dumbass???
it totally SUCKS witnessing their complete lack of effort on behalf of their own children...
and of course DH's dont mind, it's their kid and god forbid they witness their own mother dropping the ball w/o DH there to 'fix' it...
sometimes she asks, sometimes
sometimes she asks, sometimes he offers. It used to bug me more (in that I would get angry at HIM instead of HER) but frankly, I've stopped caring. Over the years, he has made it clear that his kids come first - so if you can't beat 'em join 'em! My kids are in my number one slot too. On my one night without my own kids during the week, I just do whatever the hell I like (shopping, meet with friends, work late). If BM needs him at her beck and call on his night "without his kids" then he can't expect me to be home spending time with him when mine are with their father.
I still don't get what exactly the BM is doing with all her free time that she still requires so much help from so many different people.
In the 6 years that I have
In the 6 years that I have been with DH, BM2 has picked up SS a total of MAYBE 5 times... she always makes DH do all the pick-ups/ drop offs or has her BF do it or will come close to our house, but will make DH meet her at the bottom of the road or some dumb shit... really?? You can't drive another 3 fucking miles???
BM1 has NEVERRRRR picked/up dropped off SD, BMs mother has picked SD up for BM MAYBE 3 times, other than that, same thing... all on DH
Of course alot of this is DH fault for facilitating this crap for so long.. but whatever. He knows better than to ask me.
.. and mind you BM1 has NEVER had a job since I've known DH, so not like she's real busy and BM2 has either worked PT (max of 20-25 hours per week) or been unemployed so not like she's really busy either. They are so freaking pathetic