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picture of BM entitled " My sexy girlfriend"

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Submitted by cloudySM on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 4:15pm

My mom sent me a scrapbook of me growing up the step kids saw it and wanted to show me pictures of them growing up. DH had a shoe box full of pictures above the closet. My youngest stepdaughter holds up a picture of her mom asking DH when he took it. It was a picture of BM aka (the blob) sitting on the bed with a short nightgown on , her straps pulled down exposing her cleavage looking suductive and blowing a kiss. On the back it says " my sexy girlfriend".

DH grabbed the pic and changes the subject to a pitcure of older SD on the potty. After the picture show and tell was over I asked him about the pic he said it was no big deal BM gave it to him when he use to be a truck driver and had to be away for a few weeks. More information then I needed to know. He gave it to me and let me rip it apart.

I know I need to just get over it but it makes me sick. Thinking of him caring that picture around and admiring every lump and roll on her body :sick: . I know it was the past way before he knew me but for some reason I feel a little jealous.

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Most Evil's picture

Submitted by Most Evil on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 5:39pm

Oh gag!! :evil:

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Submitted by Newstep on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 5:50pm

GAG :sick: I would probably be bothered if I saw a pic of SO and BM all happy together. In all the pics I have seen he looks seriously miserable while she is hanging on his arm with a huge smile.

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Submitted by Logisticly Speaking on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 6:36pm

I found a pic of my FDH's exW folded up stuffed in his wallet once, behind pics of his kids. He pulled it out and immediately ripped it up. That felt good! Wink Truth be told it did make me a little jealous that it was still there in his wallet, but it's whatever now. The past is the past. Now her ugly face is ripped and in the dump somewhere. }:)

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Submitted by HungryEyes on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 8:56am

Well honestly, and this is hard for some people to accept and it was for me too early on, but in most cases they did love these women at one time for whatever reason (young and dumb, etc). You can't get mad that they felt that way before you came along. The older you are, the deeper real love is. I always tell my husband 'I'm so glad I met you when I was almost 30 because I would never have appreciated you at 20.' And he feels the same way. I'm lucky to be the woman who ends up with him, NOT the one who tried to ruin him.

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Submitted by Last-Wife on Thu, 04/17/2014 - 7:08pm

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THIS. This is why we put up with all the nonsense we put up with. Because we love these men!