I know you are not happy here
We just had a huge fight minutes ago about the fire last night and about his kids that was wrong in my eyes but right in his and how hard he's been trying to please the BM. I don't know how much of his GDS I can take. At the end of the fight, there came his infamous comment, "I know you are not happy here. Just admit it, you know what you need to do." Well, it's his way to tell me to move out on my own accord because he won't tell me to since he's a nice guy. He used this line every single time we had a fight. Maybe he's trying to create an upper hand for himself to let me know that he's fine for me to leave, I don't know. And as far as the fight is concerned, he said he wasn't fighting, he was just defending himself, I was the one who was fighting so I guess I just love to fight.
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It won't work, it won't even
It won't work, it won't even make him move a finger. He okay them for anything whenever they are here. He told me he ran a tight ship, when he said no, it's no. However the reality is, he would say "I think what they are doing is okay with me." So obviously everybody defines "tight ship" differently.
DH of Starla here. I agree
DH of Starla here. I agree with my DW "Do Not Walk, Run To The Nearest Exit." Your boyfriend is a self diluted Disney dad.
To leave boys in charge of a fire right next to the house and going to bed is an irresponsible and negligent thing to do. Fires are to be put out with water before walking away from them. BF had put the both of you in danger. If you had not been there what could have happened with a smoldering fire and the windows open? Carbon monoxide poisoning for starters. A wind could have come up and blown sparks into the eaves of the house and all might have died. Just negligence on his part and cowardly indifference.
His line "I know you are not happy here. Just admit it, you know what you need to do." is another example of cowardly indifference. By telling you this BF in his mind creates an out where he can blame you for the break up bc he wants to look like the good guy and won't man up to his part as a father and a mate.
Just my two cents.
Look no matter how you turn
Look no matter how you turn the coin he's going to blame you, he's going to say you left him, he's going to make you the bad guy because he doesn't want to stand up and be a man because that's hard work don'tcha know. It's easier to be a balless wonder and blame others.