DF called BM tonight and asked to speak with SDs. I knew this was going to be a problem b/c she had already been texting about her child support. As soon as she answers the phone, BM starts screaming at DF about the child support check. DF says calmly, "BM, I called to speak to the girls, not you." So she starts yelling at him about being civil. Then she has the nerve to say, "You need to support your kids." Really, bitch? Did you just go there? DF works two jobs and sends 1/3 of his pay to her. She sits on her fat ass and pops out a kid every couple of years and does nothing else. I was so annoyed, especially since I could hear SDs in the background. I said to DF, "She shouldn't be talking about it in front of the girls." Well this pissed her off and she says, "I think they should know you skip payments." DF tells her that he always pays the payments. And she says, "No, sweetheart, you don't." Ugh. I know she called him that for my benefit so I didn't give her the satisfaction of getting angry. Finally, DF got tired of her yelling and hung up. She then started the texting. She is so delusional. However, I did do something a little passive aggressive. She called his phone while he was in the bathroom. I answered the phone and said, "he isn't available sweetheart. I'll have him call you back." I hung up before she could respond. DF laughed so hard at that. She really is ridiculous. At least, DF and I have been able to joke about it. Sometimes, you just have to laugh at her ignorance.