I'm new, just found this site while I was sitting in my car hiding from my husband and family. We've been together for 2 1/2 years, and got married a month ago. My problem is that for starters we live with his parents, which is tolerable expect when the SS is there. They baby him and act as though he is theirs. My husband and I don't matter, our opinions or discipline mean nothing because SS just runs to grandma and grandpa and they spoil the sh!t out of him anyways. My husband used to have a job where the days he had off were the days he had his son.