First, I am well aware they need to speak about their son. Second, that's not the issue. My issue is that when she talks to him she has side conversations about extra stuff (her family, what she is going to do, details about everything). My husband doesn't share that info with me. Should that bother me? Why all the extra talk if it has nothing to do with the child. ( I find out about conversations because he eventually gives himself away) why hide it? He says it doesn't mean anything but then again why not just share it with me straight out. We have been married 4 years now.