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Submitted by EvilDiva on Tue, 05/12/2009 - 9:48pm

time H and I argue about the kids, he threatens to leave and file for divorce. Every single time. And I am so sick of that. If you are committed to this, to us, in good and bad times, then STFU. If you're that fed up with our infrequent, yet volatile arguments, then go ahead and move the f*ck out.....

UUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

My SD opted for no contact with BM today

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Submitted by EvilDiva on Sun, 05/10/2009 - 8:57am

First, HAPPY MOTHERS DAY/STEPMOM'S DAY/STEPMOM VACATION DAY to everyone!!!

I am still in bed with DH, BD10 and SD14 making me breakfast. So sweet.

SD14 decided she didn't want to go see her BM which thrilled us. The less interaction with the crazy one, the better. Here is the only problem though...as a mom I feel a little guilty. SD14 has truly just latched on to me, wants to please me, wants to be just like me. And while I am flattered and thankful she is at least trying to emulate a positive role model, the mom in me is very saddened that her BM is so ughhhhh.

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Submitted by EvilDiva on Wed, 05/06/2009 - 3:30pm

I love the nicknames and want to redo my profile. I love the way there are others who feel as I do, who go through the same experiences. I spend far too much time at my desk reading the blogs in lieu of working. Still, just wanted to say I really enjoy this site.

I have been my happiest with SD14 and DH since becoming a "vocal" part of the site. Now when SD14 does something I just smile and shake my head b/c I know that someone else in the world has gone through the same thing and survived it.

So just wanted to say that.

I think my hubby is the problem

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Submitted by EvilDiva on Sun, 05/03/2009 - 9:31pm

and has been all along. This isn't my first arrival at that conclusion. Ahhhh, I'll try to shed some light. This weekend my husband was out of town on a fishing trip leaving me home with my SD, my 10 and 6 yr old bio and the 10 yr old had a friend over whose mom is a single mom newly dating a guy about 6 hours away. So we had a relatively good weekend. SD and I had one big blowup about some failing grades, but we worked through it mainly because she knows when I say something I am going to stick with it. My husband is a different story.

I need help.

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Submitted by EvilDiva on Tue, 04/28/2009 - 12:46pm

Dear fellow stepparents, I come hear with a heavy heart. I am married (3 years in July) and have been dating my husband for almost 6 years. I have 2 bio children, a 10 year old daughter and a 6 year old son. My husband has 1 bio daughter (lives with BM) and 2 other daughters he has accepted as his. They are 18 and 14. The 14 year old lives with us presently. Until 1.5 years ago, the other 2 lived with us.

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