So OSS's sports pics I blogged about yesterday. Surprise, surprise. Guess who didn't show up at the rink? Guess who didn't fill out a form and order pics? Guess who won't be getting any now? I called it. If we weren't financing it, she wasn't going to do anything about it.

Then my ODD15 was talking about stuff with my DH. Somehow the topic came around to money and finances. She makes the statement that "my dad wouldn't do that. He can't even afford his car. All he does is complain about being broke and not having any money and all the bills he has to pay. I don't even like to ask him for $5 that I may need because he'll just go off about it. Do you and mom have money problems?"

My DH said "Well there have been times your mom and I have been in a tight spot. Things happen or come up and it can be tight for a bit, but you figure it out and work through it." DD15 says "Really? You and mom have had money problems? We never knew that!! How did we not know??" DH says "because it's not you kids' concern or responsibility. Your mother and I are responsible for bills, clothing, etc and taking care of things. Everybody runs into tough times here and there that's part of life but it's a part you will deal with when you are an adult and responsible for yourself and a family. Those are things your dad shouldn't really be complaining about to you kids."

Really exH?? REALLY?? It wasn't enough for you to text me last week whining about how you didn't make your house payment or car payment last month? How your vehicles do not have valid plates because they expired a month ago and you don't have insurance on either car right now so you can't get plates even if you had money. That you owe the gas company $500 and the electric company $1000??? That somehow you thought I would care about it??? That wasn't enough?? You have to bring the kids in on your woe is me party too? Maybe have your live in gf with the four kids who live there full time help pitch in? She's working full time. She drives the cars. Her kids live there too. It's NOT MY problem. It's NOT OUR KIDS problem. You just once again validated what a douchebag you really are. Go buy some more hair gel and supplements so your hair can look perfect and your 37 yr old muscles will continue to grow. Asshole.