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SS13 will be pushing to move in sooner

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Submitted by Helena.Handbasket on Wed, 04/25/2012 - 9:34am

Well, I have been hearing from SO that SS13 may start asking BM if he can move in sooner. Eighth grade instead of waiting til HS.

I said is this SS's idea or YOURs? He admitted it was his because SS was complaining about BM. Same things that happened with SD. Complain about BM and dad will rescue.

Then he made a comment about SS getting braces. I said oh, what kin... stopped myself. I'm disengaged. He heard me and said I dunno whatever his mom picks. Hopefully something that will be easy on us when he comes here (meaning getting him to appts and such).

US???? LOL Ok SO. Good luck with that.

SS13 and I get along for now. But I still keep a safe distance. The bigger issue with him is BM will be more involved in things on my end which I don't like. I will have to get my inner bitch out and start boundaries right away. Not to mention SOs ass kissing towards her "to make things easier on SS"
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Submitted by Kes on Wed, 04/25/2012 - 10:39am

Oh bloomers. Sorry to hear SS is moving in sooner. I think the aspect that you mention - that BM will be sticking her long nose in - is one reason I said to DH that if either of the SDs come to live here (we don't have room for both) I intend to be OUT the same week with my suitcases.
I could just imagine NPD BM phoning constantly and coming round sticking her nose in, and this would be sure to drive me back into a bad state that I have spent 10 years getting out of.

I am sure though, that you will be a lot better than I would be at handling it. I am not that strong. I have confidence in you, Handbasket!