BM Has So Much Nerve

Have to vent but crazy, selfish BM called up yesterday demanding that we take SS to Florida for Thanksgiving - as she put it - "it is our turn" - the kid is 20!. We are going for a couple of days to see MY mother. She is so deparate to get rid of the kid fir Thankssgiving, she said she would pay his airfare - NOW all the sudden she has money. She just does not want her SON with her boyfriends family at Thanksgiving.

So she expects us to take him with us to stay in my mother's 2 bedroom apartment in a place for seniors! My mother barely knows him.

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He is 20 doesn't he have a

He is 20 doesn't he have a live of his own? :? I would tell her that you are going down there to see your mom and thier is no room for him. It might be diffrent is she asked to to demand something oh hell no! }:)

Tell your BM that where your

Tell your BM that where your mother lives is a senior community and she can not have anyone under the age of 21 staying there or she will get kicked out!! The real age is 18 but don't tell her that. They take these ages very serious in these communities. And tell your BM that your SS needs to find a friend to have Thanksgiving with - you need a break too - yuck when the hell does it end please tell me because I am getting nervous - I already to DH that if SS wants to see us after he turns 18 and graduates he is coughing up money for a ticket and I am not kidding!!

Geez do they not ever end

Geez do they not ever end with the demanding??? Crap I would just flat out say no! Have nothing more to do with or talk to the bm and never answer to her again as the kid is an adult now. HE can call his dad! Why even answer her anyway??? IF he wants to go he should call his dad and ask AND offer to pay his own way!

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He is 20 doesn't he have a

Tell your BM that where your

Geez do they not ever end

This is so depressing. Still

Take the money for the

I'm telling you there is NO

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