So this past week was SD birthday she turned 7. We let her got to MIL house for the beginning of the week and MIL was going to bring SD back the day before her birthday well things changed needless to say and DH had to work. Well to get to the point BM doesn't call my cell,DH cell or MIL house or cell to say Happy Birthday to SD. The day after her birthday she call MIL house leaving a message saying she tried calling my cell and DH's cell but said we played phone tag with her and wouldn't give her a straight answer about where SD was going to be on her birthday.

I had to go to dr. for a check-up being as i'm 5 1/2 months pregnant. I left my BD/2 and SD 7 at my mothers house for about an hour and a half and when i get there my mom is pulling her hair out cause SD is so out of control the word my mom used was manipulative. If it wasn't think it was another. She takes toys from the little kids. (My mom has custody of my nephew who will be 3 in a couple of months)She is told not to do something so she tell BD & Nephew to do it right after she being told not to do it her self.

I am so frustrated with this whole thing I don't even know where to start. Just a briefing to start I am a SM/BM my SD will be 7 next month, BD is 2 and i am expecting in November. My DH has full custody of SD and she lives with us since school ended before that she lives with M.I.L and we fought in court for her the whole 3 years total she was there. We also had visits the whole time she was living with MIL.

SD 5 was over at our house this weekend and she lives with MIL(Long story)well MIL implanted in SD head that she is her mom.She has SD call BM by her first name. Well it just gets under my skin when she says i want my mom which is really Grandma/nana. SD told my nephew that is 8, Kerri is not my mom but Insert my BD name is my sister. I didn't get mad because it is true but i have to admit it did hurt a little.