My ss6 started to tell DH that he tells BM about things going on in our house. Examples are that dad drinks beer, takes pills, sleeps naked and ran off the road with the truck. BM has asked ss if dad drinks beer or alcohol and takes pills or vitamins. What 6yr old knows the difference about any of those four things? SS told DH that he wanted to tell BM then it finally came out that she asked him some things.

I pissed because I don't want to live in the house with a tattletail. My life shouldn't have to go and be reported to BM who is a waste of life and only wants ss because its her way of taking him from DH. She still has no health insurance on ss and hasn't made any sort of payments to medical bills in her name yet tells us she won't pay a dime to us when we pay our bills in full so that she doesn't make us end up in collections. She doesn't think that learning to ride a bike without training wheels or tying shoes is important but to bombard ss who is going into first grade with summer school.

I come from a divorced family and i was the same age as ss when my mom remarried. I never ever went between parents and told what went on at each house or had my parents ask questions about the other. I knew better than to do that and I wasn't the kid that wanted everything and got spoiled. This stepkid of mine is sorry to say but evil. He knows exactly what he is doing to us and doesn't care because it's more fun at mommys and she buys him things all the time for really no good deed done.

I love my husband but don't like his kid anymore. I think the kid will go this summer and tell BM that we are mean and yell and basically have rules and are being parents. I don't have the patience to deal with this kids nonsense. I hope that we will have kids of my own soon because then I feel I can just brush that kid aside. At first i feel quilty that i want him to leave to go with BM but I now see that that is my chance to have hubby to myself for once and grow that life together. I know this kid will only make it worse because he has these facial expressions of just pure I don't give a rats butt what you are saying to me.