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I just wanted to say how excited I am about everything that's going on in my life right now! Tomorrow we're going for a 3D/4D ultrasound to see our little girl Alanna. AND! BF just let me know that SS said he wants to be there for the ultrasound! Yay! And next friday I should be closing on the new (to me) house that I'm buying! We're keeping our old house as a rental until we can fix it up enough to make a profit selling it. Hooray!

BM's mother seeks out MIL for a talk

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SS called my BF's mother today as she was getting off of work and asked her to come visit him. She gathered up his presents and went to visit him at BM's parents' house (she won't let people inside her own home, go figure). BM was there - MIL said she looked horrible as per usual. Greasy hair and skin like she hadn't bathed in days, no bra, in her pajamas (this was at 4:00PM)...ugh. After MIL had been there for a little bit, BM's mother said she needed to go to the store and left. MIL left shortly after and found BM's mother parked at the end of the road waiting for her.

Curiouser and curiouser

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MIL called BM's parents' house today to try to get a hold of SS and wish him a happy birthday. BM's father told her that he didn't know what was going on with BM but he was worried about her. He said that they would go weeks at a time now without seeing her, and usually when they did it was when BM's mother walked to BM's house to check on her. BM never goes to their house, and they never see her coming or going from her house (they live next door). BM's father said that they only see SS about once every week or so now, when he used to be at their house every day.

Really weird dream

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I usually share my dreams with BF but this one involves BM so I figured it would be more appropriate to post it here. So I dreamt last night that BF and I were at home watching TV. I got up to go do something and noticed SS was at the door knocking and pushing the doorbell multiple times like he always does (our doorbell's batteries are actually dead right now due to his excessive ringing). I told BF that his son was at the door and he told me to answer it. I was like, I'm in the middle of something, you're sitting there on the couch. He refused to get the door, so I did.

Poor SS

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Today is SS's birthday. BF has been trying to call him all day to wish him a happy birthday, but since BM's phone has been disconnected he had to wait until SS happened to be at his grandparents house when he called. BF said that everyone who he talked to today (SS's gmother, SS, and BM) sounded like they were on edge and upset. BM got on the phone after SS to talk to BF, who told her he had been trying to call her house but a recording said it was disconnected (up until now she claimed it "wasn't working right" because it would ring for the caller but not at her house).

Reflections on Stalky Stuff for the past several years

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Sita Tara's recent blog reminds me of several "run ins" that I've apparently had with BM in public (and in private) that I never knew about until afterward. I guess I don't pay as much attention as [BM] does.

There was one time that I was driving BF's vehicle and she saw me getting out in a parking lot, and claims to have taken a picture out the side of her car. I wonder how she managed taking a picture out the window of her car, of something she had just noticed when driving past at 45 mph. That resulted in about a week's worth of emails about "that whore driving your car".

Pregnant Intolerance

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Lately I have had very low tolerance for all the little things that I used to overlook. I have noticed that I am much more bothered by these things lately and at times have been going out of my way to point them out to BF and SS. Like for instance...(prepare for a bunch of bit$%ing and ranting)

Anyone have experience with temporary custody orders?

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BF plans to motion for a temporary change of custody at the next court hearing if BM doesn't have a job in 30 days. Has anyone ever done something like this? How did it go? The attorney still hasn't drawn up the paperwork to my knowledge, which means it's probably not going to happen...but I still would like to know what we're in store for when it finally does because I don't see BM getting a job any time soon.

BM's simple request

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BM asked of BF, "Please make sure SS goes to bed. He's been sneaking up in the middle of the night to get on my laptop and watch movies on YouTube all night long." Is it just me, or does the solution to this problem seem simple? Put a password on your laptop...

BF caught a glimpse into BM's nasty house

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BF went to pick SS up tonight like he and BM had agreed for his one week this summer. When he pulled up, no one came out like usual. BF went over to BM's parents' house, and they said they didn't know why they weren't coming out. He went back to BM's house and knocked on the door. SS opened the door, and BF got to see the inside of the house for the first time since November 2005. He said that nothing's changed. He saw the "garbage pile", the area where the garbage can was which he described as a three foot wide, five foot tall pile of garbage bags stacked on top of each other.

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