Yes .... exactly how i feel today. I have finally excepted I have this and looking into ways of living with its many issues. I love my hubby and this will not change so i just have to deal with SD but she is moving back here.  We could deal with her when she lived 1800 miles away it was better. At 40 years old I thought she would have grown up by now but it's not better sometimes it's worse. I'm just glad I found this place to vent. At least I have my H that knows me my heart how it functions and also he knows SD's. Cut and dry... but not very fun to live through.