My partner of two years have a 24 year old daughter, who may I add has a son of two and is living with her boyfriend. she is extremely demanding of the father and he in turn gives into her demands, not sure if he is still feeling guilty after being divorced for nearly 16 years. over the weekend we visited her and the little boy because my partner had bought him a toy guitar and was excited to give it to him. well let me add that excitement was short lived because his daughters demeanour was just very ugly on the day. she was openly rude to the father and he did absolutely nothing to put her on her place. this has happened before where she was also rude to him in company. I've always refrained from getting involved with him and his daughters issues but on this day I had to question her behaviour and I then subsequently told my partner that I wanted to leave. I could see that he felt embarrassed because of her behaviour and looked very upset the entire day. most of the afternoon he tried to make telephonic contact with her but she had switched her phone off. however the next day I happen to read a message on his phone where she badmouthed me and she also believed that she did NOTHING wrong as usual. for most of the relationship I've tolerated her because I love her dad but I've also put my own boundaries in place where she is concerned. I also find that my partner comes up with all sorts of excuses where his daughter is concerned and to my it's mind boggling. I also find her to be very pretentious and my partner insists that he wants us to have a relationship but I honestly can't see that happening.

the beauty of it all is that my partner has no issues reprimanding my son of 14, so when this incident happened I told him that the same principle should apply when it comes to his kids. in my heart of hearts I really can't stand her she is just an ugly spoiled wanna be little princess :sick: