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I know I didn't do anything wrong so why do I feel so bad?
When I met DH, both kids were sleeping in the bed with him even though they had their own rooms and beds. It was a long process but him and I worked together to get them to sleep in their own beds. For the past two years they sleep in their beds most of the time but sometimes they come into our room in the middle of the night when they can't stay asleep.
O/T-Are all children this self-centered or am I just impatient/hormonal?
My 10 year niece is staying with us for a month. I love that little girl so much and we've always been close, she used to spend every weekend at my house when my sister worked weekends and lived close by. I only saw her a couple times a year since my sister moved away 3 years ago.
She's been here only a week and my gosh she's driving me nuts already! I'm wondering where my sweet, considerate, loving, and wonderful little niece went cause I don't know this girl!
Somebody please explain to me why BM finds it necessary to tell my husband that she's not having sex
For some reason my skids' BM is constantly emailing my husband and tell him that she's celibate and not dating anyone-according to her, that's proof she's a good mother. When she first find out DH was dating me, she wrote this super long email about how she is purposely not dating and chooses to be celibate for the sake of the kids and what a bad father he is for not only dating but introducing me to the kids. She was texting him on an almost daily basis "bragging" about her celibacy. Then it stopped for a few months.
OT: My mother wants to name my baby!
DH and I told our parents about the pregnancy over the weekend. Everyone was super happy for us. The second thing my mom said after "Congratulations" was that she is picking the baby's middle name.
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I saw my baby's heartbeat for the first time...I feel very blessed right now
We found out about a month ago that I'm pregnant. yay! But it's also been a stressful month waiting for my first prenatal apt and ultrasound. It'll be a year next month since I suffered a miscarriage with my first pregnancy so being pregnant again brought up a lot of emotions and worries. Even though my Doc confirmed pregnancy 3 weeks ago with urine and blood tests, I was skeptical. Well, I went in yesterday for my first prenatal and I'm 7 weeks! Baby is due on Christmas. What a wonderful Christmas present!
BM hugged DH....I'm not sure how to react to that
DH and BM had mediation today because she insisted on the ssons going to private school and won't discuss the possibility of public school. DH's lawyer filed a motion and mediation was today. DH called me after it to tell me that the mediation lasted only 15 minutes because BM apparently "thought about it" and decided that DH was right and public school was the way to go.
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SS5 to me: "BM lets me drag my train on her windows....this is not your house SM, it's dady's house"
As we were getting ready for me to take the ssons to preschool/daycare this morning, ss5 was playing with his toy train and dragging it across the living room window.
Me: ss5, please don't drag your train on the window
ss5: Why SM, why?
Me: Because it will scratch the window
ss5: BM lets me drag my train on her window
Me: This is not BM's house. We have different rules here in this house.
ss5: This is not your house SM, it's daddy's house.
Me: Actually, this is SM and Daddy's house
ss5: it's daddy's and SM, and ss4 and my house!
I'm bitter, I'm resentful, I'm angry, I'm tired, I'm bitchy and no, it's not PMS!
When I met DH about 3 years ago one of the first things he said to me was 1. He has 2 babies(ss4 just turned 1 and ss5 was 2) and 2. His ex and the mother of his babies is a crazy, mentally unstable piece of work. Why didn't I run away then? Why on God's green earth did I stay and allow myself to not only fall in love with him but marry him and buy a house with him?
O/T- This is kind of silly but please don't judge me :)
After losing our unborn baby last summer, DH and I are finally ready to start trying again. Yay!
I really want a little girl. I have 5 brothers and I'm the only girl, DH has 3 brothers, no sisters. And DH has ss4 and ss5. I'm surrounded by boys. Is it bad that I desperately want a little girl? I know I will love our child no matter what because it'll be me and DH's baby but I'm praying for a little girl.
YAY for Skids-free weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just dropped off ssons at pre-school and I'm ready to enjoy the weekend with DH. It's BM's weekend/week with them so I won't see them until middle of next week (unless her highness gets tired of them or has something important to do and then guilt DH into taking them early, like she always do). This week has been especially stressfull for me because I had to take care of the boys all by myself. Normally DH takes care of them and I just help him but he had a nasty flu and was in bed the whole week.
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