My husband and I have been married 22 years now and he has a 51 year old son we have been supporting since we got married. My husband recently retired so we are now on a fixed income. My husband and I talked about it and decided it was definitely time to stop supporting him as we can no longer afford it. With that being said, he lost his house as we could not longer make his monthly payment. We still have our daughter in college so that is taking up a lot of our budget.

We decided he could move into our guest house but I am regretting it so bad. He is very demanding and always I mean always wants or needs something. We can't step out of the house because he is there and it's always, do you have a coke, can I borrow soap, can you give me meds, can you give me money for gas or money for beer or always wants and needs everything is about him. He has taken over my outdoors.

He is loud and obnoxious and very arrogant. He acts very entitled! He has been married and divorced 4 times. He is bipolar and very narcissistic.

I can't enjoy my home without him being outside and it ok to be outside when we are but it turns directly into me me me.

He doesn't work and has no money. He wants to cut our grass like 3 to 4 times a week so my husband can pay him. He uses the money on pure drugs. He knows I have a big problem with him and he doesn't go away. I have gone as far as telling him to give us space and respect when I have company to give me a little space and not visit every day. But he will not listen, he comes around daily just being my husband shadow. He calls my husband and text seem like all day long just wanting all my husband's attention. I feel like I've lost my marriage to him.

Before he moved into our home, he would fight with us on a daily basis through social media and hate it, my husband. But now that he lives behind our house, he's taking over my life and my husband's life.

My husband baby seen me treating like a child having to hide money for me to be able to give him he put it in the barbecue pit under a rock. He had a vehicle that we were paying but we could not afford so we sold the truck. We pay for his cell phone, cable, car, insurance, light, food, internet, dog grooming, haircut, clothing, beer, cigarettes, drugs, etc. He is so spoiled and entitled that he will ask for money daily. My husband and I get a little small allowance from the small chicks we get for each other and my husband goes through his money immediately. He gives it all to his son. My husband is overdrawn in the bank and it won't stop.

I hate him for taking advantage of his 71 year old dad. To add to the list, now he's just taking our car whenever because he lost his. I've had several talks with him about him getting a job and being such a lazy person mooching off of his dad and he says I'm gonna change, but it never does. I don't know how to get rid of him. My husband is on a guilt trip and feels sorry for him so I don't think it will ever stop. My stepson manipulating and cries and tells him he loves him and causing daddy to get whatever he wants. None of the other family members like him not even his own kids so all the responsibility falls on my husband and myself.

I am desperate what can I do? I want a divorce and I've told my husband about it but somehow he talk me into staying because I do love my husband, but I can't stand his son.