Chef, who used to be an EXCELLENT handyman and could bang out a great job in NO time, has now become slower, and SLOWER and S-L-O-W-E-R. Not only that but QUALITY is definitely on the wane. Projects will be procrastinated for months and months (yep still the TWO tires wait to be put on the snowblower)

It is taking him FOR-EVER to simply put a toilet and utility sink back in, put down the peel and stick faux slate floor and put up some cedar paneling on approximately a 6" x 6" floor (the laundry room).

Court date set for 12/15 to get daycare dropped that she hasn't used in well over five years. Of COURSE it won't be retroactive and therefore I predict the BM will delay the court date.

Oh and the fact that OSS moved out in August. . . He's 18, but here in stupid pro-GUBM world, CS goes mandatory till age 21. So therefore, OSS can work a few hours a week between pot smoking sessions making smoothies on a food truck and live at his Uncle's house, yet BM will still get paid CS for him.

So earlier this year Chef decided not to use the ancient plow truck anymore due to the fact that it's getting to be "too much work" so he's "given" it to the neighbour who is also a procrastination nightmare.

Instead I bought a snowblower which needs tires.

I ordered the damn custom expensive tires in JUNE!

Do you think they are on yet? And we are starting to get lake effect snow here.

Backstory: Neither BM nor Chef EVER parented when their offspring were small. They gave up on SD and YSS pretty much the moment they popped out of the BM's vajay jay.

So now, of course, when kids are teens and "testing the waters" is the time to attempt to parent them as is the typical road of the PASinator BM and Guilty Daddy. :barf:

I noticed the BM posts "stern" warnings on FB wedged firmly between the other 99.9% of BFFing.