BM sending DH texts about SS22...

For those of you that think that these crazy BMs go away after the Skids are grown, think again.
BM just sent DH a text yesterday telling him that the insurance policy that he holds for SS22 does not cover dental or eyeglass benefits and that he needs to do something about it. She also told DH that SS22 needs a physical because he gets a lot of headaches.

LMFAO…. Hmmmm, bitch the kid is 22, has a job, a full grown beard and does NOT need his MOMMY calling his DADDY about his doctor appointments or lack thereof.

I seriously will never understand.
Rant over.

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I told SO that after SS turn

I told SO that after SS turn 18 he had better block BM from every device he owns and never speak to her again. If he does, I will leave him.

I hope that DH blocks BM when

I hope that DH blocks BM when they turn 18!

I agree, vision insurance is a waste of money, you spend more on premiums than you do on a year of contacts, one pair of glasses and one wellness eye check (usually covered by most insurance anyhow)

Dental? I agree tell him to pay out of pocket... its only like 200-300 for a cleaning with x-rays.

The day YSD graduates high

The day YSD graduates high school we're blocking all forms of communication with BM. At that point DH will communicate directly with skids only. I can't wait!! 5 years to go...

He ignored the WHORE and he

He ignored the WHORE and he can't block her because they still have SD14.
But can you believe her? She's fucking looney tunes.

UFR-Did your son have his

UFR-Did your son have his hearing last week? Did they dismiss it?

Hearing was moved to

Hearing was moved to 1/22.
But prosecutor told attorney that it will be dismissed. Now we wait.

I hate hearing this. I feel

I hate hearing this. I feel bad for you but it also makes me fear for our future as well.

After the youngest skid turns 18, I want our lives to be completely BM free. Thanks to this website, before I married my husband I made him promise that he would cut off ALL contact with BM then. He argued with me at first. The usual "there will be times that it is inevitable that we will speak". Nope. There is NOTHING they need to talk about because she can't seem to grasp the concept of boundaries. Fast forward 11 months into our marriage and he had already blocked her from his phone. Now, two years into our marriage he can't wait for the day he blocks her completely.

You are an inspiration.

Seriously, that is exactly why I made DH promise me we would be rid of her ASAP. So glad he's on board now too. I really think he had false hopes of BM becoming a different person. Lol.

Oh man, If I have to hear one

Oh man, If I have to hear one more time, "Well she's trying"...From SO regarding BM, I will go insane. The woman is 40 with 4 kids. One of whom moved in with her SO at 16 to get away from BM....BM is not trying, she is a loser. And is never going to be a different person as long as she's living off of CS.

I think that kids stay on the

I think that kids stay on the parents plan till age 26 now isn't that right? That's what I think.
It's not SS that makes BM call, she takes it upon herself to pretend to be MOTY and be SO caring and involved in her children's lives, now that they don't need her ass to be a mother anymore. She's ridiculous.

I thought there was no hope

I thought there was no hope and my DH would have to deal with the ex forever but thanks to this thread I can suggest he block her once the SDD are 18. The oldest is 16 and the youngest is 14. Oh happy day. It's been a rough few days but this thread made me smile.

We have only heard from bm a

We have only heard from bm a few times in 10 years and it is only pleeese get SS to ring me. Ss26 hasn't spoken to his mum in 10 years.

The problem now is SS contacts us for any little problem and wants to move back in with us and does move in and out at least once a year.

SS problems are worse than bm's ever were

Don't worry, there's hope. We

Don't worry, there's hope. We went from dealing with BM's constant bullshit ALL.THE.TIME when SD was still in high school to nothing as soon as she graduated. DH basically told BM to F off when she graduated and surprisingly, BM complied. SD graduated in 2012 and we haven't heard a peep from the idiot BM since. Well, there was the Linkedin request and subsequent email from dumb bitch saying he didn't have to reply (duh), but that's been it. SS even still lives with us but her dumb ass has actually learned not to contact DH about anything. I have a feeling she might slither out of her pit when SD graduates college (which will be ignored as SD is a grown woman perfectly capable of informing her dad herself of such event) or if one of the kids gets married (which again I expect the kids to deal with DH directly about).