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Well I think I have been watching too much Sex and the City, however, they make life seem grand. So my DH is probably going to let my SS stay sun. night at his BMs. We have placement and it is her weekend, however I do not feel a kid should be at someone elses house on a school night even if it is his moms the court gave us placement for structure and consistancy. My DH does not see the problem because Monday is mommy take your kid to school day so my DH feels no problem to let SS stay the night for her to take him to school on mon.
I just want to know if anyone out there had kids after a vasectomy reversal. My DH got his done in October after 10 years of being "snipped" and we have had no luck yet. i know its only been a couple months but there is just this on going fear and anxiousnous that it might never work and i cant stand the thought of never having kids of my own. i try not to think about it and i've calmed down a bit but its always in the back of my mind.
We got a letter back from the court this past weekend, denying BM's motion to change custody. The letter states that my husband & BM should go back to mediation to reach an agreement (unless they can reach one on their own). If they cannot reach an agreement, it will go to court & the judge will decide one parent or the other.
Can anyone tell me what is normal? Is there anything that I can keep private? BM was very disturbed and called FH in a screaming tirade that he should have told her himself that we got engaged. Apparently, she found out through other people and was hurt that she didn't know. Seriously? When is enough enough? It's bad enough that I have to share my life with this "woman" but why should she have to know anything other than what affects SD7? We did tell her before I met SD7 when we were dating because that affected her.
You know it is bad when you go to Parent Teacher Conferences and the teacher lets out a big sigh and admist your conversations tell you "You have your hands full with her". Great. Just Great. Plus teachers talk in code you know...they don't tell you the full story because you hate to hear that your little one is the devil in disguise! SD8 had her conference, and the same day was sent to the office for interupting the class as well as being diobedient.
Well on Monday, my son's test results came in. He is diagnosed with Autistic Disorder. I knew this was coming, and was not surprised, but I'll tell you....to hear it from the doctor, was heartbreaking. I tried to hold back the tears but could not. You are never really prepared for that moment. He is still the same kid that he was a few days ago, but now things just feel different. The bright spot, if any in this situation, is now we can start services for him besides just Early Intervention. The doc.
BM was 30 min late for the parenting class today, the instructor just kept delaying starting because BM said she was on her way. GREAT! Seeing how DH has taken another day off work(BM didn't make it to the class when it was scheduled last week) and the instructor told us if BM did not show we would go on without her.
Ok, ladies and gents. Your prayers brought my Mom thru her surgery - she came out fighting (mostly me!).
Thanks to all....
Now I need selfish prayers. I need "bewitched needs a job desperately" prayers.
I give up the thought of school. I just want out. Out of this abusive relationship. I just want to be able to meet my financial obligations, and show H to the door.
His screaming at me over the $180.00 for motel room when my Mom was in the hospital was the last straw. My parents are reimbursing us, tho they shouldn't have to as we live rent free in this house.
SD23 finally made me lose my temper. Again I went down to the kitchen to cook dinner for the family and there she was making brownies. I asked her what she was doing and she said making brownies, I said well I was going to make dinner and wanted in the oven by 6:00, guess that's not going to happen. And she said no probably not... Well I turned to walk away and she started yelling at me about how she had a right to cook for herself. I said you are making brownies, I need to cook dinner. And then she yelled "IT"S NOT YOUR KITCHEN!". I said and it's not your's. And we need to share.
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