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We took BM to court for full custody (she was evicted and we had the skids full time, we wanted it on paper).Somehow she got a lawyer (can't pay rent but can pay a laywer?) who told her to ask for her 50% custody back or she would have to pay cs - and even though she was homeless the judge gave her back her 50%. Anyway we did win her paying half the child care (during her week of custody) and half the skids medical. H asked for a wage assignment but BM won that and she has to reimburse weekly (blah).
So we had to pick up the little one on last Friday.
BM wanted to do the pick up early at 5 pm. No problem, my dh went to get her. I didn't ride this time cause i am not going to take leave from my job for that triffling heffa.
Anyways, of course she doesn't drive to the court ordered pick up location. We figured that would happen again.
So when he gets there, he gets daughter and then the BM (bitch beast - i stole that one from someone else - but it is fitting for her) starts in on the Christmas visit drama.
Just talked to FH, he got off work early and guess what he wants to bring the kids over early too. I was looking forward to getting home relaxing with a glass of wine BEFORE all the stress of stepkids for the holiday would take effect.
I do understand that he wants to be with his kids it is just disappointing that I miss out on my destressor.
happy holidays..
‘Twas the night before Christmas
and all through the house
everyone is comfortable
except for DH’s spouse
The step mom has ensured
that everything is just right
doing everything possible
to avoid a big fight
But it’s just step mom right?
We hate her – she’s mean!
let’s be ungrateful again
the worse she’s seen!
The tension so thick
put on the fake grins
step mom will lose
everyone else wins!
MERRY F’***IN’ CHRISTMAS!!!
I live with a SD23 who thinks she is 10. My BF and I got enagaged on Friday and when she saw the ring she asked what it was for. When he told her she dropped my hand and walked away. She did not say congrats, nice ring, nothing. She just walked away. The next day she was in a rotten mood and her dad said I wonder what is wrong with her...LOL. I knew but wasn't going to say. He thinks it's becasue she was having a fight with her on again off again BF. But I know better. She has been trying to get rid of me since the day I moved in 2 years ago.
Well, today is the day that the darling SD gets married. I did tell my DH that if she wanted me to be there then she would need to invite me herself, which she did. So, with that criteria met I have to go. I want to support my husband, but I just want to scream! Stupid girl is 18 and hasn't even been out of high school for a year. She doesn't want to have to make her own plans, so getting married has become the plan. There is NO way this girl is rady to be a military spouse. First time he is away the mouse will definitely play! Loyalty and fidelity mean absolutely nothing to her.
Let me start by saying that I in NO WAY think that there is ANYTHING whatsoever between my DH and his ex-wife. But several things make me uncomfortable.
1. DH has gone to get his haircut. He gets his haircut at the place where BM is a receptionist. He gets it done very cheaply, but still. I don't like it.
2. I work 3rd shift, and a few weeks ago, I woke up in the evening to BM and her boyfriend drinking beer and watching football with DH and SS. No one asked me what I thought. She was just there. DH said,"Well I had too many hamburgers grilled so I invited them over."
I am livid! Last night H gets off the phone with the cokehead drug-dealer junkie SD19 and announces to me that she will be coming to Christmas dinner--which means all day. Maybe a few days, too, because SD19 will of course want to stay for a hot shower and a warm bed, and food in the fridge.
I uncorked on him. Don't I deserve to be ASKED before people are invited into my home? Especially junkie drug-dealers? Don't I have a say in this decision? And, by the way, my answer is NO NO NO!
BM cheated repeated before BF found out and it ended their marriage. BF busted BM cheating because he found sexually explict photos she took of herself and sent to numerous men she met on poker playing sites and such and they sent her back photos and videos that were also sexual in nature. BM also wrote many emails to these men with very dirty stories in them - all somewhat violet and very sexual - rated XXX and I am not a prude. We have these emails and photos and videos. Due to all this cheating, BF had to have DNA tests done before baby was born to find out if he was the father.
BM wanted xmas to start at 9am and when the order came it said 9am and BM wanted to give BF baby at 1 or 2 pm. NOT happening! BM still has not answered to whether she will meet us or drop FSS1 at his grandparents house that morning. BF asked for baby for a few hours on New Years Day, which is her holiday, and she said as long as BF does the driving that it is fine. Which we have no problem with driving since we will be in her area anyway.
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