DH hasn't heard from toxic SD16 and we leave on our vacay this afternoon
Read some of my previous posts if you need back story. As it is A LOT to type out everytime. But short story, SD left when DH wouldn't just believe her lies and say that everyone wronged her and owes her an apology, and that she completely innocent.
I've been a DREADING sd camping and dating she wants to be part of this family trip. At first DH said (not to sd, he said this to me) he didn't want her to come (his hurt feelings talking), then he said if she called a week before our trip, he be OK with it, but if it was less than a week, no, she can't just be part of the trip, JUST for the trip, she has to be part of the family first, then all week he was hoping that she'd call, but EVERYONE in the home (including me) was telling him that she shouldn't come because obviously she doesn't want to be part of the family. I even suggested that he take her on a separate trip, just him and her.
Well, i hope I'm not jinxing myself, but she hasn't asked yet (it's 7:30am day of the trip) I'm feeling hopeful.
She (when DH reminded her) did text my dd17 happy birthday. Same way she texts me on mother's day, "happy mothers day" but only because dh reminds her. This year i refused to respond. DH literally takes sd home to have a father's day celebration dinner with her step father, and i her a half ass text that is only sent because DH reminds her. I don't want it. It doesn't hurt my feelings, i would rather her just not even text me that day. I enjoy my time with my children, don't interrupt my day with the reminder of your existence lol!
Sorry! So anyways here's hoping in the next 5hrs she doesn't text