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If our bios acted the way skids do...

Anon2009's picture

Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 11:09am

How would we handle it? Wouldn't we be a lot more loving towards them and more willing to give them a second chance?

I do not have bios, but I would still love them unconditionally and be trying to help them. But I wouldn't expect my spouse to and I wouldn't be forcing my spouse on my kids and vice versa, pushing for a big, happy reunion that nobody seems to want. And I wouldn't be telling my spouse and kids a whole lot about each other. And if they weren't living with me for some reason, I'd contine to write them, talk with them on the phone (depending on the situation) and see them for lunch/dinner on occasion. But I would not allow them back to my home until they could apologize and be respectful to my spouse.

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love_my_shichi's picture

Submitted by love_my_shichi on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 11:47am

If my daughter did half the things the skids did she would be off to military school. The skids are SO OFF....and so beyond out if control in all their behaviors and actions that I would not know what to do. I would hate my own child I think. But I would NEVER have let my daughter get to the point of the skids. It has taken years of zero parenting and no rules and absolutely no consequences to make the skids the pathetic idiots they are. I don't even want to think about my daughter being like them.

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Submitted by Purplemom on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 1:02pm

If my bios acted the way the skids do I would hire an exorcist. If that didn't work they would be in military school.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 1:10pm

I'd of beat them if they acted the way some skids do, no joke my kids are raised the way I was old fashioned with less spankings.and no belt beatings. If my kids make me livid I won't ship them to dad's oh no they will answer to me! He'd likely back me but even if he was the disney dad and they ramped it up to try and go live with him life would just be worse for them. I'll go to school with them walk them class to class, they'll sleep on the floor and go without all but basic needs till they are 18. I'm always the bigger bitch, but they were raised right by both parents so I have it easy

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Submitted by LittlePanda on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 5:43pm

Oh no...I will be harsh as HELL with bd! I will come down on her hard in a SECOND if she ever pulls the crap skids pull...but then again, she will learn from a very young age that "mama don't play." I have nothing to do with SD's behavior or up bringing. I feel that SD will be the one that my bio(s) complain about..."Why does SD get to do x y or z???"

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 6:31pm

"Might I go as far to say that step kids act horrible because step parents let them. It seems pretty simple to me as Cheri said above if you let them they will take advantage." I agree.

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Submitted by bi on Sat, 03/02/2013 - 7:10pm

bd has had her mouth slapped and her butt spanked. i could probably count on both hands how many times in 18 years that has happened, because she never made the same mistake twice. maybe if someone had done that to sd a few times, she wouldn't be the raging, evil bitch she is at 20.