So long story short some of you may remember a while back DH & I had a shocker where MFI was confirmed...factor in that BM was a whore who had numerous affairs & "accidentally" fell pregnant on the pill & ss looks nothing like DH.So after months of drama where DH was then wasn't going to do a DNA test, factor in BM getting more batshit crazy as the festive season reached a crescendo,A decision has been made..after meeting with our RE last week we are starting IVF in the new year. I have told DH he will have to do a DNA test because if for no other reason than that I am not going to lie to our child (if we manage to have one) with "this May or May not be your sibling" to cover up BM's whoring ways. Also if ss is a victim of identity fraud courtesy of BM he has a right to know......watch this space!