I am without words BM EPITOME of sick.
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So BM calls DH today. Christmas gifts to SS14 will be late this year (Standard Operating Procedure from this waste of human DNA). But get this...
OMG I am so mad; and sick to my stomach; and just livid. I can barely relate this...
How did she get his gifts this year?
She used the fact that SS14 has autism and that she is needy to get "adopted" by one of those charities that does such things. She does nothing to support SS14. She lives over 1000 a miles away. She doesn't do anything to help him with his Autism. She is using it...using him...
OMG. It's fraud. It's sickening. It's Munchausen by Proxy. It's...
I'm sick to my stomach and just so hurt for SS14. He doesn't know any of this...but damn.
I don't want him to get what are basically stolen presents. But I also can't be the evil STEP MONSTER who doesn't let him have the gifts his Loving mother sends him.
I am just sick over this.
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Horrible. But no, I wouldn't
Horrible. But no, I wouldn't intervene.
I'm not going to intervene.
I'm not going to intervene. But It makes me so sick that she uses my SS14 for attention and gain when she does absolutely NOTHING for him. NOTHING.
Yep - Medusa would take the
Yep - Medusa would take the skids to local charities to get backpacks and school supplies, to the food pantry to get food and taught them all about food stamps, all the while spending DH's CS on dog knows what.
Totally get it, bm in our
Totally get it, bm in our case wouldn't work and went bankrupt ordering mail order steaks and constant trips to the mall but would pony up to the toys for tots line in a heartbeat. Tried to get disability and when they turned her down she eventually got a job, a crappy one but at least it's something.
I guess it is just the
I guess it is just the holiday stress getting to me today. But I have mentioned before that BM is a waste of DNA. She does NOTHING. I mean NOTHING for SS14. She doesn't pay support because she is "on disability." She rarely calls. She has visited once. For two or three years she was in a relationship with a pedophile and we went to court to make sure that if she did visit that HE was not allowed near SS. She hated us for that. (BTW...he is back in jail now)
On her facebook, she is constantly posting about being the mother of an autistic son, like that makes her a super hero. Or that her autistic Son is her super hero or whatever. She NEVER sees him. She has NO idea what it is like with him. She is completely out of touch.
And now to pull this move; I don't know why it hurts me so...YES I DO.
I was one of those kids. When I was younger...I was one of those Angel tree kids. My mom had nothing; and three kids. I got a chemistry set one year because I was an Angel Tree kid. It was the only thing I got that year...and I LOVED it. I really know what that is like. I know what it is like to be dirt assed poor.
And to see her use SS14 this way...to take from someone who might really need it. UGH.
Ahead of you there Chardonay!
Ahead of you there Chardonay! But BitchM won't tell us. LOL I think she thinks we are going to turn her in. We have a huge toy/supply drive every year at work and I am working it and donating cash and toys every year. I told DH next year I wanted us to have SS14 working it as well.
Some parents shouldn't be
Some parents shouldn't be parents. I have a cousin who is a sucky dad. I'd ask his son age 6 some time after Christmas if he was still enjoying his gift I have him and he said no because his dad took it back to the store along with all the other gifts. Now my gift is picking him up for an us day which is something nobody can touch.
Our bm is also shameless. She has pawned big ticket items and jewelry given to skids from members of my husband's family. When skids were younger she put them up to ask various family members and even me for money. It was always a school need. Dh and I are much too wise to fall for that but she's scammed hundreds even thousands from other members of the family using her own children.
SD used to brag about how GBM
SD used to brag about how GBM would order a pizza and then after they ate most of it, she'd call back and bitch about the pizza being awful, or a hair or some nonsense, and get them to deliver another one. Quite certain the poor delivery guy never saw a tip either. I can only imagine the things these people have done that we DON'T know about. They have no shame.
Turn.her.nasty.ass.in. to
Turn.her.nasty.ass.in. to the charity.
Charities don't take kindly to being played. There was a big stink in my area last year, when Presents that were obviously given by the Artic League (a charity for needy) were being sold on Craigslist. Some people's souls are just black. They just don't care.
Off topic but did you see
Off topic but did you see when Ellen went to peoples house when they were selling the things they'd won on her show.
She was very nice about it but you knew she was ticked that people were selling the gifts.
I think an anonymous call to
I think an anonymous call to the charity is in order.
We have this. BM tried to get
We have this. BM tried to get YSD diagnosed with and medicated for ADHD - four doctors refused as she has anxiety (from being raised by an emotionally abusive mother), but not ADHD. She then tried to get her diagnosed as autistic because she could get loads more in benefits / welfare. That didn't work either because she's not actually autistic.
That didn't stop BM from signing her up to several local charities for giving respite care to parents with severely autistic children who she can offload her to on the holidays/ the weekends she has her for childcare / trips out etc. She's taking the place of children with severe issues to deal with whose parents must be desperate for some help...it makes me sick.
She loves OSD as she's pretty and clever, but hates YSD as she has some minor developmental delay and resents having to 'deal with her'. The irony is OSD is a teenaged spoiled brat with zero empathy and hand constantly out for money (just like BM), while YSD is the sweetest, most open-hearted kid I know...
We tried taking it up with school / lawyers / doctors etc, but the upshot is as long as she's not beating them up, there's nothing we can do as the relevant authorities don't care.
Some people shouldn't be allowed to be parents...
It amazes me that there are
It amazes me that there are parents/gparents on here who will deny to the ends of the earth that their child has ADHD or autism. They won't get them the help that they really need because they can't admit anything might be wrong with their perfect child.
Then there are others, like your BM, who are trying for force it on their kids?!?