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I had a good weekend-without BF and SS actually.I went out with my friends many of whom have kids,but get babysitters to go out.I have actually phoned Women's Aid (England) a few times as it has been suggested I'm in an abusive relationship (in many ways).I think I'm not happy.They say he has no right to demand every weekend to do just what him and his son wants as we have never agreed this.Making me guilty is his way of controlling me.I get quite upset and angry that he never considers my needs and he knows I get depression and anxiety.Do you know he once said to me 'I don't like care about other people's kids' pfft.Thanks to frustrated for the reply.More another time.
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A lot of what you have described in past post
does sound abusive. My FH has no problem with me doing my own thing and he never coerces me into doing anything with SS.
How long has he been in your life? How often do you actually feel happy with him?
as we say in the south, bless your heart
Dazed,
Someone who loves you gives you wings to be your best , not chain you to be in control. Every relationship, even the unhealthy ones are hard to break the habit of, but I belive just as this weekend has given you room to see how different things could be that more room would proove to do thatas well.
Will you still miss somethings? Unfortunatley yes, but so much more is available to you. And the missing will ease with time , especially as you start discovering who Dazed is again!