So the SKs skipped the wedding
We planned a small family wedding over Thanksgiving weekend at the coast. Basically just my kids, Sks and a handful of family members. We rented a large house to accomodate everyone for the weekend. The kids had two months notice of the plan. SD21 works at a coffee shop and couldn't possibly get the Sat/Sun off after Thanksgiving. SS17 was all in until two days prior to leaving. I am positive BM was at him because we have been trying to get her to own up to stealing a bunch of money from DH after the divorce was final. Nevermind that SS17 was ordered to be with DH for the holiday. SS17 sends DH a text letting him know he has social anxiety, blah, blah and won't be there. Typically SS17 sends one word to a max of 2 sentences per text but this text was two full paragraphs that sounded an awful lot like BM pretending to be SS17. This makes 2x in one month BM has pulled this crap. Neither SD 21 or SS17 called or texted DH on the big day or Thanksgiving, they couldn't even "like" the facebook post. SD21 then texts DH on Monday morning that he needs to send the new insurance (that we hadn't received yet) to BM because SS17 really needs to see a counselor. Ugh! Stop communicating through the kids, how hard is it?
For the first time this week DH is so hurt that he refuses to reach out to SKs. We were in BMs town yesterday and I suggested we see if SS17 wanted to go to dinner. DH was like nope, not this time. I think he is really starting to see the light. He is a great, loving man and does not deserve to be treated like crap by his prior family when cheating ass BM broke the family not him.