How do you deal with SO gone all the time because of SK sports
My stepkids have sports 6-7 days a week. Every night they have something and DH wants to be there which I understand completely and I admire that he wants to support his kids. But I have never heard of kids doing sports 6-7 days a week. The younger one played back to back baseball in two different leagues for over 6 hours last Saturday in 90 degree weather (9 years old)
And this means my DH is gone. All.the.time. His ex signs them up for everything and doesn’t talk to DH about it which she’s suppose to but she’s controlling and that’s a whole other issue. Of course he wants to be there to support his kids but damn! I hardly see him. He works all day then goes to games/tournaments/swim meets every night and all weekend long. Last weekend one had baseball from 11-2 then the other from 3-6 on Saturday then on Sunday it was 6 hours then Monday a game and he got home at 8pm now tonight it’s 8:30 and he’s just driving home now.
I miss my husband and I feel like we don’t have a family life! It’s really getting to me. He does make time for me in between but it’s like we can’t plan anything. He needs to look at their sports schedule first. It’s frustarting. I want to be supportive byut I have kids too and I’m sick of our lives revolving around these sports and I’m also sick of not having my husband home! How do we find some balance?