Hi so I have been with my BF for over a year. We live together and have my SS every other week (not court appointed). However the BM is many words I'd love to say. She is narcissistic, mean, use SS as a pawn. Etc. Just today she told my bf he couldn't have his son because he's working out of town. He turned 2 in the beginning of feb and BM had him for his birthday. We were going to have a party this weekend and she said no we can't have him.