SD35 stopped by the house today, while DH was at work. She told me her fiance had pointed out to her that she was being downright disrespectful and he didn't know if he wanted to marry someone that is so mean. So according to her, she saw the error of her ways and wanted to tell me how sorry she was. I call b*llsh*t on this, she knew he was having second thoughts and saw what a witch she is. and SD35 didn't want to lose her cash-cow. After all these years she still doesn't get it. I know what she is and she can't just flip a switch and be all nice and expect everything to be fine between us.

Now that I have a spine, I told her that I accept her apology for what it is, but I will not forgive her for the way she has treated me, until she can prove that she has changed. The B*tch in me }:) had to add, I have never seen a leopard changed its spot and her disrespectful attitude has never changed, just like a leopard. She tried the poor me, and fake tears on me , but all it did was just prove that she isn't sorry for anything. SD35 said she was sorry I felt that way and left, when she was outside she didn't know that I was looking out the window and she turned towards the house and gave me the good ole American salute (middle finger). The security camera caught that clear as day.

I am sure she will go to her fiance and tell him that I was terrible to her, but frankly I don't care. I called DH as soon as she left and let him know what happened. He laughed, said she's up to something to make herself look like the better person. DH said don't be surprised if she plays the poor me on FB. DH offered to post a rebuttal with the footage from the security camera to her FB, if she pulls any crap.