PLAYING MIND GAMES:?
well the sd rings last night ( the bm was in town this weekend so our ears were ringing. bm, the 3rd party and that would of been playing sd ) as she rang to tell hubby that "it's in her best interests for her to end their relationship"! he was devastated. And angry... we know its them in her head, but she's like a lamb following to the slaughter... i wonder if she realises just what she has done? Because when there comes a time she decides to want her father back he might not want to go there again! Hubby let the councellor know this and pass it on.
These bm's doing all they can to ruin everything and then still continue to hurt the men through the kids arent they satisfied yet?
Why dont they just take the men's balls when they leave? And be done with it already? Hey in Australia a judge ordered a 10 year old child to see her dying father as the bm had filled the child with lies and all the rest. So the child hasnt seen the father. Sad hey... lots of comments, might get all the men out there who are going through this crap to get a voice! :0
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bc alot of BMs
hate the BFs and SMs more than they love their own children. its sad, but true. why else would u want to terminate that relationship? i'll tell u why...bc its likely detremental to BM to have to have BF a part of HER life still. sick. so sad.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
Child support
If your DH pays support for this child, he has the right to see her and know how she is doing in school, etc. Is this the SD that is almost grown? If so oh well but I would not pay for anything for her either then!
If he is required to pay, he can say (like we did) too bad - I have the legal right to see you and we will have a civil relationship, or you and your mom will be in big trouble!
He really needs to not just accept it unless she is of age, because then she can say, well you didn't even try to stay in touch with me. Not forever, just follow up, a child cannot make that decision and still think you will support her!
"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin