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He did it again

Aly Fran's picture

Remember what I always said in all my blogs???

When DH visits SD a week never passes by without a chaos, fight, argument and a troubled home..

Remember I was saying DH had a visit with SD last Sunday well he came back pretty calm and quiet but that only lasted 3 days by the 4th day he was a total jerk and gis attitude really sucked and by the 5th day he was a total different human arguing about things that made no sense for instance I don't tell him morning or goodnight, I don't ever hug him at night and because I asked him what happened although he told me he was feeling really sick he said I don't have a heart because I asked him what happened knowing he already told me he was sick.

He jumped off the bed and packed all the clothes he came back with and left again.. This time I told him when he leaves there is no coming back I don't care whose house it is come back when I'm out . I'm really working to get myself out I'm giving myself 6 more months here before I fly out of this country. 

I know I said I'll keep you guys posted so here I am once more blogging and always looking for an answer as to why after every visit with SD my life is in this mess as long as he doesn't visit her my home is peaceful without any chaos and conflicts.. I wish I knew I guess it is what it is

 

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Rumplestiltskin's picture

Good luck. Whether you leave for another country or leave for another house in the same neighborhood, don't look back! 

Aly Fran's picture

Is it even normal for a man to behave like this after each visit with DD. He behaves like a normal human being if he doesn't see SD. 

He didn't see her for months and that was the only time my home was peaceful for so long.

hereiam's picture

It sounds like he has a lot of resentment towards you regarding his daughter. Every time he sees her, he takes it out on you, even though it is HER behavior (as well as his) that has caused the issues.

I don't see this ever changing since he won't take any responsibility. Also, his leaving and coming back over and over is not healthy.