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BM Broke her neck!!

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Submitted by anita...sigh on Sun, 11/08/2009 - 8:14pm

In two places, after falling in the bathtub because she was drunker than a skunk and survies!!! Ack. We found out through a third party/friend who spoke to BM personally. People, she broke her neck over a month ago. All she told us was that she had to go for surgery in a larger centre and would be "laid up" for a couple of months. She didn't even tell her own kids in case they might tell us. Her surgery must of been a huge success because she's out running about already.

To add to the insanity, she had her lesbian SO and friends organize a Benefit Dance for her!!!!! People, this lady gets close to $3000 a month in child support, etc. and this does not include employment monies. Also, you need to keep in mind, she does not have any of the kids, one is in her own place, one is living at her boyfriend's house with his mother, the other couch serfs and her XDH has the boy (that he pays child support for).

I really need to know how I too can become a crazy EX. It sounds like a lucrative career to me. Sigh.

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Submitted by buttercup123 on Sun, 11/08/2009 - 8:22pm

Um, what planet do you live on where a woman who doesn't have the kids gets child support? man, I'm glad I don't live there. Here, CS goes by what percent of the time the kids are with each parent. The dad should be revisiting that with a judge. I'd be pissed if I were you. Lucritive indeed.

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Submitted by anita...sigh on Sun, 11/08/2009 - 8:59pm

Don't forget the Federal Child Support Guidelines... Uggghhh. Seemed like a good idea when they passed in legislation but god.. We are a prime example on how it can go wrong.

We all smile in the same language

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Submitted by anita...sigh on Sun, 11/08/2009 - 8:24pm

Canada... need I say more?? There is no hope for justice

We all smile in the same language

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Submitted by buttercup123 on Sun, 11/08/2009 - 9:11pm

Lol, yes we are.

CS guidelines are just guidelines. There is a lot of gray room. I would have a lawyer revisit that. That lawyer didn't do your DH any favours. That isn't what we are experiencing here. As soon as we got the kids more and BM had them less, CS went down. When she made us buy them each a new wardrobe we were also able to reduce. You need a decent lawyer. Usually the first half hour is free. I would book an hour and tell them what the deal is. Why would a woman who isn't caring for the kids get money to care for the kids? It just doesn't work that way.

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Submitted by vgill on Mon, 11/09/2009 - 5:44am

LOL!!!! I wish our BM broke her neck, I read this and it brightrned my day with the thought!!!
She sounds like she needs to be taken out back and put out of your misery!! SELFISH! they seem to all be like that!!!