and blew a gasket! You wouldn't believe the S**t I go through!! Check out this email we got
from BM. For reference, Betty has been a friend of ours for over 6
years and she bought a puppy (Vinnie) from me and she asked what we are doing for Xmas because she was thinking of visiting and I replied. My note is at the end of this bizaare rant! BM has aleinated the skids from us and uses me as her excuse. SD16 beat the tar out of me a year ago for which there was no consequences and things have been very strained with the skids since. They do not like to be questioned on their actions and are very entitled kids.

BM and DH had recently negotiated a CS settlement which included some back pay; however, her lawyer, who is responsible for writting the order, failed to put in some very important points in the order so we sent it back for revision before we pay out any settlement money. Also, we have received no phone call from her lawyer. Apparently, it is also our fault that we want the order to be in the matter agreed!

This is her email (I cut and pasted it so it is exactly as she wrote it). I have included the email I had sent to my friend that got her so upset. BM decided last summer that she was a lesbian, left her husband for her lover who plays in a band with our friend Betty so I don't doubt that Betty did say something but Betty is a sweet heart and would have in no way have been melicious about telling Bm about my Xmas plans. She probably thought it would be no big deal. I don't even want to tell Betty about BM's response because she would feel bad about it.

From: Crazy BM

I see you tried to call, I haven't a response from you in a few days
so i have contacted my lawyer and she is trying to get a hold of you
to let you know the protecall if you have a problem. I feel its time
to go for court and i need to end the petty decrepincies you feel that
are blocking you. It is extremely hard to raise these children that we
love and i have been short changed for a long time. They suffer every
time and i always bear the burden. I have had enough of this and am
taking you to court to let,- not me, for i have been foolish and
trusting to think your kids are going to be a number one concern, but
lack your full backing in always, following through for you --you see
it as my gain not theirs, (so so very mistaken that is), But let
the jugdge decide, not 50percent or a pittley amount for guitar but
all the 96percent based on family income and whatever the judge
decides prudent. Its a hard time and Im stressed infufilling and
meeting their basic need, You dont ever do the non stop supply of
necessities. Not sure why you phoned or what the kids plans are for
Christmas OR why your partner would email Betty(my personal friend) to
say she had to leave for you to spend time on Christmas with your
kids, odd weird but not my issue, they can decide and we dont care
nor do my friends so dont email Betty or us about how she or you tick.
I just care about supplying a healthy substainable life for my girls
which i share with you. Email from now on I wont call for you
broke the word you said See you in court back to the email from
both parties i wont talk on phone. BM

Here's my email to my friend that was so offensive to her:

Hi Betty

Glad to hear things are working out between you and Vinnie. I can't wait
to see him again. I've seen a couple of the other puppies and they are
real sweet. I have one puppy left who looks like Foxy but will have
bigger ears and he is a real charmer. We've already had him vaccinated
and dewormed. We are absolutely falling in love with him and need to get
him to his permanent home (once we find him one). We have to repeatedly
tell ourselves we do not need anymore dogs. I'm sure going to miss him.
Its so strange not having all the puppies running around but I am looking
forward to the next batch Gotta luv those puppies.

Planning on spending a quiet Xmas at home. My sister and nephew will be
coming from PG (Hopefully). DH is going to have Xmas eve here with his
girls and I'm gonna bug out and go to my Mom's for the night so DH and
his girls can have there Xmas without anyone complaining about my presence
(sigh). Hopefully everything will work out alright.

Talk to you later.

If I had stayed her for Xmas, skids would have used it as an excuse not to come, now that I'm not going to be here, she's twisted it yet again to make it into something evil. Can't win through losing. sigh.