DH has full physical. BM, DH and myself share legal. BM has zero visitation.

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DH has a good amount of time but is about to get full custody with BM having visitation, I'm sure. No more than EOW though.

My FDH legally has 40% and pays auto child support that comes out of his pay check straight to BM. However, for the past 2 years, he has had SS FULL TIME and still paid the child support. Now, for about the past 6 weeks, SS is spending EOW only with BM and we are still paying child support.

Currently we have EOW and a day during the week. Because of his work schedule, BM allows him to take them 2 days during the same week and non during the next week.

But BM is moving out of state after she gets married this summer. Then he will have Summer, Christmas, Spring break and 4 days each month otherwise. That's why our attorney said to sign - he is getting more custody this way than he did before.

DH has full custody of SS14 - BM gets EOW and 2 weeks in the summer

DH has full custody of SS8 _ BM has supervised visits 2 Sat. a month for 2 hours each time and she is suppose to pay $160 in Child Support. Of course DH hasn't seen any money.

Full custody of SS14 and BM has full custody of SD17. Kids never see each other. Each parent sees the other for lunch or dinner exery 4-6 weeks.

Sad as hell that it ended up that way, but we sacrificed one to save the other....A fight BM started, but we think we won now that SS is thriving...SD17, not so much...BC and failing grades and just a steady decline since the day she turned 14 and had us served...

CO is EOWE. But since that was put into effect, my husband got a new job. His schedule is 3 days on, 3 days off so EOWE doesn't really work anymore. So we basically just get him whenever we feel like it.

DH and BM share 50/50 joint and physical. We have the skids two weeks on/two off.

BM, however, feels that "as the BOIZ' mother" she gets to make unilateral decisions about everything and veto anything DH does that she doesn't agree with.

He and BM used to have 50/50 and allowed stepdevil14 to dictate the schedule. When I first met him a few years ago, SD was coming over to DH's bachelor apt (which was a half mile away from her house) every other day!

When he and I got our own apartment later that year, he switched her visitation to every other week because it wasn't convenient since we moved 5 miles away from her mother's.

Since SD and DH had a falling out, she told her mom she wanted to live with her full time so BM took DH to mediation and they settled on 100% overnights with BM and DH gets limited visitation until SD decides she wants more.