SO has not seen SD16 & SD14 since last July. Their BM (Redneck) got married to her BF of 6 years & I guess he is the only dad they need now.

SO, while sad about not seeing the girls is not about to kow-tow to the little witches like they want him to. They expect to have “mini-wife” status when here, they expect everyone to bend over backwards to ensure that they are happy, every second of every day, they expect to run the home (menu, schedules) & feel that they should be allowed to “deal” with SS9 & SD8 as they see fit. NOT gonna happen…no way, no how.

They do contact SO on occasion TELLING him that he has to give them money, or rides to whichever function or friend is important or useful to them at the time. He of course doesn’t do as ordered…he tells them that he would be more than happy to help them out IF they felt that he & their siblings were worth their time, other than when they want something.

Per the CO, SO is supposed to pay for CS, half of the health insurance & 50% of any uncovered medical expenses. Redneck has NEVER paid for any of the health insurance but has left it all up to SO to take care of.

So on to our current “fun” issue…

February: Redneck took SD14 to the ER over a “knot” in her stomach. They did all sorts of scans & the such…the doctor figures that it was a hernia & that it would go away on its own. $800.00 (due to the deductible) later, Redneck calls SO telling him that he has to pay $800.00 to her immediately. SO responds with “The CO says I have to pay once I see bills/receipts…send them to me & I’ll take care of it”…Redneck curses him out & hangs up on him.

May: SD16 is taken to the ER due to injuring (spraining) her ankle during a soft ball game. $2,300.00 (due to the deductible) later, Redneck again calls SO telling him that he must cough up the money NOW. SO, after asking about how SD is doing, he responds with “The CO says that I have to pay once I you send bills/receipts…send them to me & I’ll take care of it”… Redneck curses him out & hangs up on him.

June: I go & check the mail, low & behold, there is a bill, from the ER visit in May…from the hospital (that we’ve NEVER been to) addressed to SO. SO calls the hospital & apparently Redneck had forged his signature & put ONLY his information down…NICE! The hospital said that SO needs to send a copy of his license & the bill to them to start a dispute over his “signature”. I told SO to copy the bill & send it to Redneck asking for 50% payment, as laid out in the CO.
What is so damned hard about sending a copy of a receipt/bill rather than forging someone else’s signature?

Redneck is a DUMB ASS!