BM texts DH that her bday celebration will be at her aunt's as usual...

Basically she wants the kids (and probably dh) to attend her birthday bash but it's smack dab in the middle of his parenting time.

He texts back, if he can see them one day during the 4 weeks he won't get them because her holiday falls on his weekend.

Of course she says, according to the court order you have to make allowances for birthday's but the schedule is what it is.

Basically, f u dh. My bday matters, you are just SOL thought because my holiday falls on your weekend.

What pisses me off is her gross lack of understanding in the CO, it says nothing about making it to b-day parties, it does however state that the visitation time is the MINIMUM (in caps) and that arrangements should be made for the kids to see the non-custodial parent more.

Anyway, I thought it would be fine. She can have the kids and we can pick them up the next morning. We had an offer to go out with friends and thought it would be fun.

She texts back with
"Thank you, it's not my fault that my birthday falls on your weekend. When is asheeha's birthday, i'll be sending you a schedule of the birthdays, but after 8 years I think you'd know them. We will be having st. patricks party at 5pm. It's so good to work together for the kids they really are so wonderful!"

F U Bitch.

She's such an insufferable narcissist. It is OUR job to work with her, this is HER great effort to "work together." When it matters to DH, well that just won't do because that's not what the court order says. Sorry DH, too bad for you.

I hate her BS, I hate her nicey nicey crap when she's such a jerk.

I just had to get that off my chest.

We will have a great night out dancing and having fun. She get's the kids on her b-day like she wants.