One day of H being nice-yesterday. Today he's back to being himself-Can't stand for me to be happy
Yesterday H was all nice and wonderful over the phone. Of course he was-he wanted me to take SD14 out for lunch, and give her yet more money for her birthday....she had a party 2 weeks ago, which yes, I went to. Gave her $75.00. Her birthday is today, so yesterday he wanted me to give her another $25.00 & take her out. oh, girls, he was so nice to me. Oh, thanking me, so appreciative.
Today. Back to his normal self. I was so happy-the gift I ordered him for Christmas came. So I told him-not what it was-just that it came.
Me: I'm so happy-your Christmas present came.
H: go ahead and rub it in that I haven't gotten you anything yet.
Me: I wasn't rubbing anything in. I was just happy that it came.
H: Oh, it's so easy for you to be happy. I'm out working in the miserable cold. I told you not to get me anything-I would rather have the money in the bank. (Yes, he did say that. But out of the other side of his mouth, he made sure I knew what he wanted).
I guess I'm not allowed to be happy-even when it's because I did something for him.
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hes a first-rate idiot
yeah, im sure he would rather have money in the bank to spend on his princesses. :barf:
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
Yeah, I didn't think he could make me cry anymore
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
but he sure did it this morning. I spent alot of time finding this gift-it's something mechanical/automotive, which I know nothing about, and not available here.
Hours on the phone, on the internet, searching for just the right one, when I wasn't even sure what I was looking for.
And then he throws it in my face. Yep, it doesn't feel any good at all. Wished I'd never even met him.
u shouldnt try so hard w him
youre a good person and im sure theres still love there in u despite all hes done to shit on it but really...does he DESERVE a gift from u?? especially a well thought out one that u went to great lengths to choose?? uh, no he doesnt sister. so send it back and tell him he gets nothing then.
im so sorry he treats u like this. start the countdown now as to when u can leave him and find a mna who will truly appreciate u, who u are, what u do, and all the love u have.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
Ditto, Bella
This guy doesn't even deserve COAL in his stocking...he deserves to be kicked upside the head by Rudolph.
I can't wait until the day comes, BW, when you have finally had ENUF. That guy's not gonna know WHAT hit 'em.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."-Eleanor Roosevelt
Bella , I would like to see Bewitched
place reindeer droppings in his stocking instead!
"OCD sucks"
Habit and routine have an unbelievable power to destroy.
--Henri de Lubac
no kidding harley!
he doesnt deserve anything nice, thats for sure. id rather throw the money away then spend it on something for him.
oooh....bewitched u should donate money to a shelter or something in his name. then tell him his gift is helping those who really need and APPRECIATE IT.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
BW - I would send the gift
BW - I would send the gift back, GET YOUR MONEY BACK AND SPEND IT ON SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF!! He is a horrible, selfish man who will not realize what he has done until it is too late!!
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
Whatever it is you got him
I would take back, take the cash and deposit it and wrap up the deposit slip....he's a ass! }:)
Yep, I agree
Send it back. Furthermore, I would write him a little note saying you know he was expecting a Christmas gift but since he is being so shitty with you, you decided to send it back--and wrap it up in a box.
And isn't it convenient that he didn't prefer to have the money in the bank when it came to his daughters' extra birthday gift?
Well at least now you know not to trust him when he's being so nice to you. When he is it's because he wants something from you.
Oh and furthermore - why do
Oh and furthermore - why do you have to be the one to go and buy his daughters gifts and take them to lunch. Why doesn't he do it himself??
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin