Psycho BM and her psycho mother are fuckin psycho!!! (shocker)
Seriously Wth. As if I didn't have enough on my plate. Sd6 asks me out of nowhere right now "why did you say grandma Betty talks a lot?" that is her grandma from her BM, she moved to California because she had to get away from her own daughter. The last time she saw sd was when sd was 6-7 months old. Now she just calls. She's psycho by the way and a compulsive liar, which is where her daughter gets it from.
Anywho, I told sd that I said no such thing and when did I say that to her? She responded that I didn't tell sd, that that's what I had said to psychos mom. I told her I've never spoken with her in my life and she repeated what she had said.
Freaked me out and made me really angry because not only am I and DH looking after her granddaughter, her daughter has no intention of ever seeing her, unless she wants to start some kind of bullshit with dh. So why is she so compelled to make up shit for no reason and then say it to sd?? DH said he was going to tell his mom to not answer her phone calls anymore. I told him to terminate BMs rights about a month ago and he still doesn't know whether it would be ok to do it. She loves bothering us but not about seeing her daughter. She hasn't seen her since January but that wasn't on purpose, (she had nowhere else to go other that mil's house and mil only let her in because she had her other kid with her who was 2 at the time) the last time she actually went to visitation was in August or September of last year...
Fucking ridiculous...why isn't she telling her granddaughter what a shitty mom sd has? How she doesn't give a rats ass about her or her half sister? Seriously she's tried giving her to me numerous times...countless all because she either has to go to jail or she says that so she can go off with her boyfriends or to parties or concerts...someone tell me why...wtf
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I agree with Dtzy...psycho
I agree with Dtzy...psycho bitches like to make up their own reality and stories so they are always the victim. Sucks for you that you have two to deal with, but I feel your pain...so do I...only to make it worse one pscyho is BM and the other is DH's OWN mother who sides with psycho BM and when they combine forces...my goodness there's not enough wine, beer, liquor in the world to help my cope with that!! If you aren't ordered to allow SD to talk to BM's mother...conveniently not be available when she calls...and cut the contact.
Hugs to you!!
Dtzy that sounds as crazy as
Dtzy that sounds as crazy as BM here...I know she makes shit up and turns every situation and conversation around to her convenience, but sometimes it's incredibly stupid whatever crap she comes up with. And her mom is just as bad even though I've never even met her or spoken to her, I know enough though. They're both pretty fucked up and they want to have a say in a lot of shit but they aren't even directly involved, I mean seriously not even physically here!
Mil was pretty much talking shit to everyone and anyone who would listen, about me because she wanted to keep being the "mom" instead of just letting her son and granddaughter get on with their lives. She was very controlling with sd and wanted to keep it that way. I helped DH stand up to her which she of course didnt like. Seriously who turns their grand kid against their own kid? She's better now though only because we don't let sd go over too often...thank god!