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today makes 4 weeks no fight

bluehighlighter's picture

Today makes 4 weeks without a fight btwn SO and I.

He and I have had calm adult discussions where we both listened and respectfully talked through a situation but no new fights.

He has calmed himself down, made time for us...lots of time, is more considerate, has been more in control of SS and not treating him like a baby. He's put more boundaries around our time together and cut out a lot of time with toxic people.

Things are looking good at the moment.

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positivelyfourthstreet's picture

Glad to hear things are getting better!

(Sorry-I just got a picture of that sign at work-the one that says such and such many days without an accident er conflict)

Hope things continue to improve for you guys.

bluehighlighter's picture

Lol yes I should get one of those like the dog shaming posts "0 days without eating the toilet paper" hahaga