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My husband's ex only speaks to him when I am not with him. She will come to his car window however to speak with him when I am not in the car with him. Is this sneaky/disrespectful? If so, should someone say/do something? Thanks,

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Amazed's picture

as though she's very intimidated by you. Or maybe she's trying to undermine you by completely keeping you out of the loop?

OR it could be that she just feels uncomfortable around you and doesn't know how to act or what to say? There are a number of possible reason this could be happening. I would just trust your DH to handle her properly and unless it becomes blatently disrespectful I would let it go. Chalk it up to her insecurity in dealing with you. She's more comfortable dealing with your Dh so just trust him to communicate with you about all things discussed with her and try not to let it dig at you Wink

If it becomes obvious that she's doing it just to be a bitch then call her on it.

~Dignity and Grace. Be that and sneak past the hate...wrinkle free~

Crizzle's picture

she shouldn't be discussing anything with him and he should let her know that. If it IS about the children, then I wouldn't worry about it. You may wind up having a lot put on your shoulders if you get involved. I would be grateful of the distance and just allow DH to update you on her issues.

"One should examine oneself for a very long time before thinking of condemning others." ~Moliere