Bio mom broken promises.
Everytime we tell the step kids of a fun plan... They go to bio mom & the stepkids come back saying they are going to do it with her. Waterpark. Amusement park. Boat rental adventure. No big deal to us, it would be nice if they did something with them, as they just sit around doing nothing most of the time... we alter our plans bc they say they are doing it at bio moms and then low and behold time gets away and they don't do it & as far as us taking them... That ship has sailed. We either took my kids & did it, made alternate plans or spent the monies that were set aside for that activity. DH has said we should stop telling the kids of our plans but I feel it's a lesson the step kids need to learn. STOP sharing our plans. STOP playing games. STOP trusting your dumb shit mom is gonna do anything fun with you. Do y'all have this issue? If so what do you do?
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So, make a long list of fun
So, make a long list of fun things to do with kids and feed the Skids an item from the list so BM steals it then do the next thing on the list instead. Don't tell the Skids what you are doing. That way you get to do unique things with the Skids and they get to do a lot more things on the list.
If BM gets pissed ..... that is a bonus. }:)
I agree. Both houses are
I agree. Both houses are making false promises.
How is it making false
How is it making false promises when we do the activity? The skids will say for example "we don't want to go to the Waterpark bc mom said she's going to take us & if we go with you she won't take us & we want to go with aunt Shelly" So we go another day. Not a broken promise. At all.