I've been thinking about it and I think we all may have gotten married for the wrong reason. We all got married for Love right? This irrational love that made us all belive that everything else would work out. That his kids would change because us and our spouse would be so insync and love eachother so much that they would see it and be happy and suddenly normal. That our spouses disney parenting would stop when they saw how normal and right we were about parenting because our spouses would love us and want to support us. Now don't get me wrong Love is important, and I believe you should love the person you marry but do we overlook the other important things that you need to make a marriage work because of it. Would we all be happier if we had married someone we loved a little less but who respected up and honored our opinions and wanted to make a life with us that was equal and cherished. I think we all got caught up in this love idea and forgot about all the other things. I love my husband so much it hurts sometimes but does that mean we are meant to be married? Does that mean that the love we share counterbalences all the insensitive moranic things he does? I am not saying I am going to leave my husband I'm just saying maybe I didn't make the most sound decision in marrying him. I just was thinking about this earlier and was interested to see what all of you think about this, and why did you get married?