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My stepson is a comic book villian

briarmommy's picture

So I had an awful weekend, my Stepson was awful and it got to the point on Saturday he got grounded for the night and got all of his toys taken away. So I put it all aside and told myself Sunday would be a better day..........NO. So after Saturday I needed a little time to myself so I asked my husband to go alone with ss7 and bd10months to get the oil changed in the car(the place we go to you can sit in the car while they do it) and to get the carwashed(again you wait in the car) he said okay but then like 10min before they leave the "We want you to come with us" "Please come" crap starts from my Husband. Finally I gave in and go, I shouldnt have gone, I ended up more misrable being stuck in the car with the little brat ss7 and resenting my husband for guilting me into going. So we get home and I go into my room to read and get some quiet time Husband is grilling so he talkes bd10months outside in her playpen, and ss7 outside with him. I have told him a thousand times not to leave them alone together......he did, so I went outside to supervise. Later in the day for about an hour before we leave to take ss7 home I go back to my room with a headache and ask husband to watch the kids, when I come out a few minutes before we have to leave husband is asleep on the couch........great watching huh? So I ask husband to get baby ready to go and I take ss7 to find the clothes he came over in to go back to bms. Now I am already upset that husband volinteered to keep him an extra few hours even though it is a long drive to take him homw and now we would be home really late but then he falls asleep and leaves ss7 to his own devises? So we get to the drop of point and bm had to park a little away from us and my husband is talking to her about schoolpics and my ss7 comes to hug me goodbye even though he has been a creep all weekend and he looks up at since no one is around with this evil look on his face I mean like 'I am going to curse you mean' touches my stomach and says "I hope your not pregnant, you better not be pregnant" I mean wtf and then he walks like nothing happened and goes and runs and smiles to his mom, I dont say anything then but I am a little rude and tell my husband "We need to go" which could be true since the bm was 20 min late and we might have had plans. I have high blood pressure and other health problems that our genetic that get bad when my blood pressure goes up, so I have felt bad all weekend, then Monday it all comes to a head and the weekend got to me to the point that my blood pressure was so high my head hurt, my feet swelled and I got light headed. This boy is literally killing me, and to top all this off I am 5 days late for my period so maybe I am pregnant.............Sorry I just needed to vent.

P.S no I didn't discus being late with my husband anywhere at all let alone where ss7 could hear

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oneoffour's picture

The one common denominator in this is you covering for your DH. He KNOWS you will step up if he falls asleep. He should be aking care of HIS son, finding his clothes etc. Also asking you if it works for you for you to keep SS with you for additional time.

He is guilting you right, left and center. He takes you along so he doesn't have to deal with his own 2 children on his own. I'm sorry, they are BOTH his children and he should be able to be able to take care of the kids on his own.

The next time he falls asleep on the couch, wake him up. He says he wants you to come along on an errand with the kids, just say no. When he wants you to chase up on SS's clothes, tell him this is HIS responsibility.

As for the evil one, the next time he says something so weird become aloof and distant. "If and when I decide to get pregnant I will not be consulting you."

I wonder if you are feeling like you are losing grip on your life because your DH isn't bcking you up. So when this child says something crappy it is just another nail in the coffin.