First of I hate my MIL she is b*tch, she has an unhealthy relationship with my SS because try as she has for years my DH won't play ball with her neediness, that being said sometimes I just feel sorry for her. Her best friend another delusional hag, well her daughter just got married and MIL went to the wedding, well they just posted the pics on facebook and there is my MIL, a 58 yr old woman in a short, sleevless black dress trying to look 40, she failed. MIL is not an attractive woman, she is 58 could pass for 65 and is really short and chubby. But the dress isn't the sad part, the sad part is MIL standing with all the 20 somethings in summer dresses trying to catch the bouquet. The woman is a 58 yr old widow why is she trying to catch the bouquet? She looked so pathatic and out of place that I realized she is just delusional and I pity her. MIL will never be happy, never know how wonderful my daughter is, never get to see just how generous and kind DH is because even her only child can't stand her. SO I have decided to no longer hate my MIL, from now on I will just pity her.