BM just can't get a frickin' clue. DH told her that he wouldn't respond to any more emails. He told her to stop asking to see SS on our days. She just won't stop. He told her Monday that he was done with the conversation.

She emails TUESDAY "I still don't have a phone. I miss SS". DH ignored her. A few hours later "I wanted to talk to you about seeing SS before Friday, even if it is for 15 minutes. I am sad because I haven't talked to him. And DH (she has this thing about typing DH's name out in the middle of a statement lately, it's kind of weird like she is making it a point that she is talking to HIM and not me... even though she is emailing HIS email address) anyway.... "And DH, I need to talk to you too". DH ignored.

Yesterday DH's phone rang from a random number. An obvious local landline. He didn't answer. We had just sat down for dinner, he wouldn't have answered either way though. She left a VM "I'm calling you from my friends house. I have been trying to get a hold of SS, can you please tell him to call me. And I need to talk to you DH, please call me back". Of course, DH didn't call. A few minutes later, he gets an email- "I have been trying to call SS for 2 days, and I just called you why can't I reach either of you? Can I pick SS up in the morning for a few hours? And DH, I need to speak with you". DH replied "I don't answer calls from random numbers, and neither does SS. He is a 12 year old boy, he won't answer random calls from random numbers. Although he hasn't mentioned that you have called him at all. And I haven't responded to your emails because I told you to stop emailing me and asking to see him on days that are not yours. I will respond regarding days that ARE yours. So, no, you can't pick him up tomorrow. You can pick him up at noon on Friday, what time will you be bringing him home?".

Then DH went and looked at SS's phone. She called from a random cell number Tuesday evening. He didn't answer. She text him "it's mom, call me back". SS replied "I will call you in the morning". He never called her. She tried calling him again, he didn't pick up. Yesterday, she called from the local landline, twice and left him VM's when he didn't answer. In all, she called 4 times and left 4 messages. SS has not even listened to her VM.

BM hasn't replied to the email regarding picking him up tomorrow at noon. She had previously said she was picking him up at 10am, but DH wants one of us to be there when she gets him. For 2 reasons. He doesn't want her anywhere near our house when we aren't there, and he wants to make sure she isn't loaded when she gets him. So, I'm sure she will be angry about that. Oh well.