Slow motion train wreck
Last night SS came home from working with his friend all week and he was shockingly in a very good mood towards us. He was carrying on about how the other kids parent let him drive around a big city by himself without a license and how he almost got into a few fights with his coworkers over racial comments. At this point I beleive little of what SS says because he lies and makes up stories constantly. We had nice evening and let him go to the town rodeo and we go to bed real early for work. Before leaving he informs DH that the neighbors have the paperwork to take full custody of him. We have heard nothing from them about this so again don't know that it is even true. SS did not come home we discovered this morning. DH called police and they went over to the house he was at and sent him home. SS glared at me shaking his head and clenching fists at me. DH asked hims where he was and SS would not even respond. DH tells hims stay home this weekend. SS ignores and says nothing. I am wondering how much longer before the other shoe drops and something really bad happens. I am home with him this weekend. SS does not mind, listen, or follow any rules. All he does is create drama and chaos.
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Why isn’t DH home parenting his kid.
Why is your DH letting other people including yourself and that neighbor parent his kid? Seams like DH doesn't want to parent, He making you stay home with a time bomb. This is not going to end good,
normally I would say not let this neighbor take control. But they seem like thr only ones who want to parent. Your DH has a say where SS lives.
What do you mean, "I am home with him this weekend?"
What do you mean, "I am home with him this weekend?" Do you mean you will be home with SS and DH won't be there? If so, you need to refuse to do that. You said SS "clenched his fists at you" - you should not be staying alone with a kid who essentially threatened you.
terrorist
I just hate to keep talking about this but 7.18 kid decides to spend the night at a friends w/o permission so dad called cops on him at 430 on 7.19. He slept until about 2pm and dad made me wake him up and he was an all out terrorist to me. I think that he is on drugs. Telling his lies about the neighbors and how much better they are than us and I told him we got him a cell phone and he is like what kind and it’s Samsung he goes I don’t want it I can buy my own phone. I said so your going to spend all your money on a cell? Your going to end up homeless like your mother. He starts yelling about how we can’t talk about his mother at all. And he’s right but he can talk all the poop he wants about us and our family so whatever. He does not help at all I asked him to clean room and go thru his oodles of clothes and set aside the too small stuff and he would not do it just sat in room playing with toys. Last week I finally washed his dirty clothes from 3 months ago. His bedroom smells like something died and moldy milk. Just bugged the crap out of me for hours. I told him he could have potato salad and he did not want that so stood in front of the fridge forever hanging on the door. Then he was wiping his sweaty feet on everything He sits there and rubs his gross feet all over the dog toys. Then he starts asking I want this I want that all day, he wants a dog, he wants a car, he wants his dirvers license, I need a bank account, all day wah wah wah!!!! Like you seriously think your dad or I are going to lift a finger for you. Then dad comes home and kid gets into usual fight about how it is dad’s fault his mother is homeless and destitute and dad almost has heart attack again. The kids response is to take my cell w/o permission and go outside and call this friend to tell them what is happening in our home. Then he comes back in and dad is crying and clutching his chest and this kid starts trying on hats in the mirror and doing poses looking at hisself in the mirror. I just kept thinking how he reminded me of wild bill from silence of the lambs. Like just how psychotic is this kid.
If you think he's doing drugs
If you think he's doing drugs then have him tested. When it shows positive, call the cops.
Has he always been like this? Does he have mental health issues?
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He has always had problems but it became unbearable after he spent 2 months with his BM family. He is refusing talking to therapist or taking his meds for his mental health