So here we go........... SO got a text from BM #1. Same old shit. I went out and spent x amount of dollars on new summer clothes and bikes. You owe me half and I need it now. Me shaking my head OMGOSH that's what you give her all that money for EVERY TWO WEEKS. Child Support is for! We have all 6 of our kids Birthday's to pay for right now. ALL their birthdays fall within 30 days of each other. This woman NEVER stops. She is relentless. Happy Freaken Father's Day.....

Child Support Definition: A payment that a NON custodial parent as a contribution to the costs of raising his or her child.

She sends him a 7 page text about how our finances are not her problem (I understand this) and she wants the money. He owes it to her. Before he texted back I told him sure tell her next week that CS money will be in her account. HE just put in the other half last week. So he will put in the other half when he is suppose to. Next week. I also told him while we are modifying parenting plan etc he needs to ask his lawyer to put in ( I have this) his papers that if BM makes it her choice to run out and buy x amount of clothing, shoes, bikes and what ever else she can think of then if she is wanting to know IF SO can pay half then she needs to CALL first, and ask would you be able to contribute. IF she simply runs out like she does every couple months and updates wardrobes or buys new bikes for ONLY her house then that is HER debt. You can't go on some wild ass shopping spree then call after the fact with YOU are paying half. I don't give a shit if you don't have the money find it. NO. This isn't flying with us. If you have been following my blogs you know my financial status. This is just NOT something we can do. We can't just run out and buy $800 bikes. We can't just run out and buy $400 worth of new clothes every few months. I know that sounds like I'm exaggerating but trust me I am not. This woman has the worst case of mismanagement of money I have ever seen. She spends like she is Donald Trumps daughter.

Not to mention all these texts yesterday was the day he had to drive to get them. Of course he had to drive further because there is ALWAYS an excuse as to why she can't come the full half way. AND as always she was 2 hours late. So of course he didn't get home until 9pm at night. Spent his entire Father's Day in the car. I guess the only plus to yesterday was SD17 went to her grandma's for the summer. But of course had to get her digs in before she left. Yelling at SO. I need this I need that. What? You aren't giving me any money? He looked at her and said did you look for a job for the summer? Did you even try? And of course she screams at him just like her mother does. It was all I could do to sit there and listen. MIL was there too and looked at me and said, "not even dipped her toes into town and it's already started" I just shook my head. And the usual her calling at all hours of the night when she is here for the summer didn't even happen. His phone didn't ring all night. She is HORRIBLE about that. She will be in the next room 2am and call his phone. Daddy this Daddy that. OH MY GOSH it drives me INSANE!!!!!!

I was also very proud of MIL last night. Because right when SO pulled up with Skids SD17 ran in the house to shower and declared I'm going out with some friends. Well BM's mother wasn't home yet so my SO asked his mother if he could just leave her there and her friends would come get her. MIL said no. This isn't my problem. She is going to her other grandma's. Her friends need to pick her up there and talk with grandma. I don't blame her. I wouldn't want the lying little witch in my house either. Nor would I want to be responsible for her. SO was mad, I could tell. But we have to be firm with what we have all agreed on. There is no slipping if one of us slips this girl will slither like a snake right on in with all her demands. And this just isn't going to happen.

It's only the first day of the summer so I know anything can happen. I set some serious rules down for the boys. So everyone knows what is expected. I guess we will see what the house looks like when I get home. I am a bit miffed this morning. Because my son is off to camp. He asked me specifically to NOT let the younger boys sleep in his bed. There is another room that we have all set up for the other boys. There is a TV there are beds. SO asked me last night in front of his boys if one of them could just sleep in my sons room while he is gone. Putting me on the spot to make my son look like a jerk because he doesn't want them in his space.