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SS10 &12 ...miss their mom!

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My SS miss their mom & he problaly will get her visitation this summer regardless of how I feel about it...they are not doing good in school, they behavior at hm is not all tht great. So how should I tell my DH they can go see their mom & I dont want them.to come back? He will be pissed bcuz I have told him & I agree that he should never have to choose between me n his kids but we have 3 bioligical kids & my oldest is 14. No real problems outta him, jus my skids. Im suffocating with resentment!!! Plz help!!
we have physical custody FT & BM has court ordered visitation every other summer. This is her yr. They are not growing up they way im raising them. They can do bad with her....thats the reason how we got them at 1st....she is a deadbeat! ...i dont kno how to talk to him about this bcuz he just sit stone faced. I have disengaged, I ignore, but being a SAHM its pretty difficult...