BM Got a Taste of her Own Medicine!
I found this so funny. DF was talking to the SDs last night and they told him about how BM got yelled at. BM has a SD9 from BigWeirdo. She doesn't see the kid often, because the girl's mom doesn't like sending her to their disgusting house. And BigWeirdo is so overworked that he doesn't fight her on it. Well she sent SD9 to visit BM and BigWeirdo over Easter. Apparently, BM didn't like the way that her SD's hair looked so she took her an got her hair cut without discussing it with BigWeirdo or his ex. The SDs told DF that BM started crying because BigWeirdo's ex completely tore her a new one. The SD's witnessed this, which I am not happy about. Apparently, this woman told BM that she completely overstepped and she should worry more about preventing her kids from getting lice than about cutting her SD's hair. LOL. It is true. DF and I hate the way that SD7 and SD9 have to deal with constant head lice issues. Plus, they look like their hair is never washed or cut. However, I have no desire to step on BM's toes so I will fix the SD's hair and treat it for lice, but I will never take them to get it cut without her permission. I have a daughter with my ex. He doesn't have a woman in his life currently, but if my kids ever get a SM, I would not be okay with her crossing this line with my daughter. I got a laugh about it. Maybe BM can now understand how hard it is to be a SM. She should think about that the next time she starts in about me and DF. I go out of my way not to step on her toes with the girls. I have a feeling the girls won't see their stepsister for a while.
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So, she doesn't take care of
So, she doesn't take care of her own kids' hair but she cut her SD's? That's messed up.
I think we're all thinking
I think we're all thinking that! LMAO
Really, really glad BM's BM gave it back to her, too!!!
I love how people get so bent
I love how people get so bent out of shape by hair! My BS7's SM will shave his head (like a 1 or 2) my mom gets SO upset lol. I keep telling her, it is just hair, it grows and he could not care less! I take him for haircuts too if he needs it (like last week, I think she has realized I do not care and given up as it does not get a reaction!). The only time I said anything, was to dad, when they gave him a buzz cut the day before sports day last year - I merely said "I do not think shaving his head when he is going to be out in the sun all day was too smart, especially as you did not bring him a hat" (it was on a dad day). I then popped home and grabbed him a hat, and problem solved.
LOL exactly! Plus my son has
LOL exactly! Plus my son has my skin...so is super-sensitive, by the time his hair is cut he is covered in hives and complaining up a storm! If someone else wants to enjoy that...have at it!
Its funny...you would think
Its funny...you would think the BMs we have to deal with who are ALSO Sms would get it more, maybe be more understanding and thoughtful, but unfortunately not always the case. Hopefully she learned a little something on this one
It deff doesn't make a
It deff doesn't make a difference especially if its a first hair cut. My brother's girlfriend's mother (at the time) decided to give my son a hair cut while she was watching him one day (his hair had never been cut before) and when my brother brought him home that day he got out of the car and said please don't be mad at me, her mom did it. My son wouldn't sit still so it was chopped here and there at different lengths, a real hack job. I had no choice but to shave his head. I was soooooo angry! I deff don't cut any kids' hair that isn't biologically mine without permission.
I find this hysterical
I find this hysterical because BM would rarely get SD's hair cut because, gasp, she would have to spend her own money to do it. DH paid for about 80% of SD's haircuts and I styled her hair for several school pictures. BM couldn't say anything because she wasn't willing to fork over for anything (even the school photos).